Establishing and Maintaining Relationships Homework Post 7: Establishing and Maintaining Relationships Reflecting on Previous Week’s Action Plan: One success I had when carrying out my action plan to build mastery was consistently setting aside time each day to Gratitude and Reflection: A Week of Growth and Learning

Homework Post 7: Establishing and Maintaining Relationships
Reflecting on Previous Week’s Action Plan. (½ page) Reflect on the positive action plan you created last week to increase your practice of willingness. Complete the following sentence stems to review your progress on your positive action towards practicing building mastery last week. Include the sentence stems in your half-page action plan. 
One success I had when carrying out my action plan to build mastery was…
Something I realized or learned when carrying out my action plan to build mastery was…
One way I could have pushed my growth even more in building mastery was…
An additional support I could have reached out to to support my progress towards last week’s building mastery action plan was…
New Skill Practice Reflection: (1 page) Reflect on how you practiced vulnerability this week. Include a response to the following prompts for a total of 1 page double spaced.
Vulnerability: (1/2 page) In your own words, how is vulnerability different from weakness for you? If you noticed the urge to resist being vulnerable this week, what got in the way? What physical sensations or thoughts came up for you? When you were vulnerable, how did it change how you felt about the situation? How did you feel before and then how did you feel after? What impact did being vulnerable have on the relationship? How did you practice the mindfulness “how” skill “non-judgmentally” while practicing vulnerability?
Responding to good news shared: (1/2 page) Think of a time this past week when you responded to a larger bid for connection when someone explicitly shared good news. Was your response active or passive? Was your response constructive or destructive? What was the subtext or deeper meaning of your response? In what way did your response strengthen or threaten the relationship? What skills from EDUC 200/215 could you practice to be even more effective in responding to “good news shared” or large emotional bids in the future?
Positive Action Planning for the Week: Develop a positive action plan for building meaningful relationships this week. Complete the following sentence stems to create a plan to take positive action towards improving your relationships this week. 
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POSITIVE ACTION PLANNING
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One thing I can get excited about in terms of expanding or strengthening your relationships this week is…
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A stressful situation that may occur that could keep me from expanding or strengthening your relationships this week is…
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I commit to doing this action plan to demonstrate personal growth in expanding or strengthening your relationships this week:  
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I will use the following skills to assist me in completing this action plan: 
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This action plan relates to my goals and values because: 
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I will know that my action plan was effective at the end of the week if: 
Class Activity Reflection: (1 page) Reflect on your group’s discussion of your bids of connection tendencies and practice effectively responding to bids in quiz section this week. Your response for this section should be 1 page double spaced. 
Turning towards emotional bids: (1/2 page)  Were you surprised by your bids for emotion connection tendencies? Why or why not? Following your practice, did your awareness of emotional bids change? Why or why not? Describe an instance when you noticed an emotional bid and responded. What did you do to skillfully turn towards (instead of away or against)? How might that action contribute towards a deeper connection? How did turning towards (instead of away or against) help foster trust? 
Love languages – (1/2 page) How might intentionally receiving or expressing acts of fondness and appreciation (e.g. through love languages) help you establish or maintain your ideal or more balanced inventory for you? What is one way you practiced receiving or expressing love languages to strengthen your relationships? How did it change how you felt about the person or situation?
Gratitude Post: (½ page) Write a half a page about something that happened this week that you are grateful for.
Reading/Lecture Reflection:  (½ page) Reflect on the previous lecture and the assigned readings for next week and/or the associated videos. Respond to the following prompts in a half page. 
What is one thing that resonated with you class on Wednesday, particularly from the lecture material? What do you still have questions about (if anything)?
Identify one way you can see the content in the readings for next week’s lecture helping you going forward.
reading: https://brenebrown.com/podcast/harriet-lerner-and-brene-im-sorry-how-to-apologize-why-it-matters-part-1-of-2/
GRADING STANDARDS
Your post is worth a possible 10 points. To receive the full 10 points for this post, you must respond to all sections of reflection the page requirements, totaling around 4-5 double-spaced pages. You should address the prompts holistically, using them as guides to meet the page requirements. Be honest; part of the goal of these posts is to have an opportunity to receive feedback and support from the TAs, who have experience with using these skills and coaching on the use of them. Your grade is NOT based on how “well” you used the skills, but rather on how much we can see you reflected on the skills/content and have thought about how it applies to your life. Incomplete or late responses will be docked points.